Female led relationships discussion

I can only speak from my own experience on this topic:

In love with an online keyholder here, I found someone who helped me break free from the endless loop of masturbation and depression. She redirected my creativity back into my work and craft. This person was a good friend, an intelligent and enjoyable intellectual companion, and a compassionate yet strict keyholder demanding 100% obedience. As a male submissive, I thrived under “her” care.

Unfortunately, it has come out that she was actually him. While I treasure this friendship, my sexual submission is reserved for women, so alas, I could not continue on the basis of such falsehoods. In short, I was crushed.

Now, blessed to be under the control of another wonderful and sympathetic woman who has been verified as female on this site. I am deeply grateful to Mistress Lucy for instituting the voluntary female verification policy here.