Female led relationships discussion

My Goddess is becoming more relaxed about what I consider fringe benefits. Lately, she hasn’t been as dominant towards me as she ought to be. I’m not getting any of those mattanace paddlings anymore. There are no punishments at all either. She isn’t keeping me bound for her enjoyment like before.

I don’t think she realizes that she is gradually surrendering control and respect.

I adore this lifestyle and refuse to lose it.

I was hoping some KHs would help explain to her how crucial these things are to her sub. Any advice, big or small, will be presented for her review. HELP PLEASE.