Female led relationships discussion

A hidden element in another discussion sparked my interest: realizing your D/s dream, yet having that lead to the relationship’s end. It made me reflect on our readiness to pamper and dote, sometimes clinging too closely, which might cause her to leave. Initially, this can be very sexy and erotic for a wife, but she may lose respect if his leadership fades or he appears less masculine. Perhaps that explains why cuckoldry is such a prominent theme here. Do we men realize that when we give up control, we also surrender part of what keeps them attracted? Even for those who accept cuckolding, isn’t it the start of mutual attraction fading and the beginning of a different relationship based on different affection? I mention this because our own bond has shifted so much recently. Although she doesn’t plan to hook up with anyone else, I sometimes wonder if years from now, after enjoying my massages, pampering, and toys instead of real sex, seeing me as a feminine servant becomes routine, will she eventually tire of having a submissive partner and desire a dominant one? It could start with cuckolding and end with her leaving the cuckold for a standard dominant man. Just curious if anyone here has lived their D/s dream but watched their partner move on to a “normal” relationship once the excitement wore off.