Female led relationships discussion

Well it finally happened, it’s occurred to many of you and I knew it would eventually happen, it just came sooner than I expected. BK received a very disrespectful comment on one of her photos. I know some will say don’t share pictures if you can’t handle the comments. It’s the internet and thoughts are free. I get that, I really do, but my perspective is different here. The issue isn’t just the derogatory remarks. I’m an old guy; I’ve lived, worked, and played with jerks all my life, as have we all. I even joke about it—I’m so good at being around them that I teach people like you how to act like a jerk. My concern is that it has taken us almost a lifetime to reach where BK and I are now. She is currently on CM, engaging with others and starting threads. Her conversations are truly unbelievable. If you had told me my wife would be enjoying a Femdom lifestyle and chatting with people on a chastity site, I would have laughed. Sorry for the rant, so back to my original point. I don’t want her scared away or developing an aversion to coming here. We are finally in a good spot right now, and she needs CM to grow and get different viewpoints so she can find her own path. I know it’s only a small percentage of guys who are assholes, and I guess I just thought BK would have to deal with this for longer. Thanks for listening.

sorry about that. There really are some morons out there, and it's best for your blood pressure if you just leave them to fester in their own soup of stupidity.

Wow, odd, she seems quite attractive both physically and personally. Rather rude to share derogatory comments with anyone, let alone a demographic that is so sought after.

I know there is no way around this kind of stuff on the internet. I just have been in heaven watching how BK has taken to the site and the people. And I have high hopes it will take both of us to where we want to get in life. She having a blast here, and believe it or not that’s a turn on for me. Win-Win.

As the others have said please pass on an apology from us men on here for this idiot's bad behaviour and manners; unfortunately as you say in this world there are so many ignorant folk who should but appear not to know better. This site would be all the less enjoyable without the wonderful female members who have decided to visit and share their time with the rest of us, and although this moron was supposedly another member here he obviously has missed out quite a large chunk of his manners training possibly due to over-use of his hands and scant brain cells for other purposes of self-pleasure. We can only hope your wife can see past this idiot's shortcomings and pass on any information to the wonderful moderators of the site to try and eradicate this poison from an otherwise fantastic place to share moments of shared pleasures. Please tell her we are all in full support of her and loathe scum like this.

> Gigaman said: > I know there is no way around this kind of stuff on the internet. I just have been in heaven watching how BK has taken to the site and the people. And I have high hopes it will take both of us to where we want to get in life. She having a blast here, and believe it or not that’s a turn on for me. Win-Win. > Click to expand... @Mistress Amanté used to frequent here often, not so much to participate, but did check on what I posted and to see what others were doing. Unfortunately, she received a few too many invitations to be a key holder, as well as other messages that were either creepy or just enough that it bogged her down with alerts. She could have turned them off, but really just knowing they were creeping on her kinda put her off. It’s a pity; I had thought this would be a great place to chat about our “secret”. Turns out she is fine being an army of one, and that’s ok too, but I know how you feel about others scaring your partner off—it’s like “wtf buddy?!”

> slave stroppy said: > As the others have said please pass on an apology from us men on here for this idiot's bad behaviour and manners; unfortunately as you say in this world there are so many ignorant folk who should but appear not to know better. This site would be all the less enjoyable without the wonderful female members who have decided to visit and share their time with the rest of us, and although this moron was supposedly another member here he obviously has missed out quite a large chunk of his manners training possibly due to over-use of his hands and scant brain cells for other purposes of self-pleasure. We can only hope your wife can see past this idiot's shortcomings and pass on any information to the wonderful moderators of the site to try and eradicate this poison from an otherwise fantastic place to share moments of shared pleasures. Please tell her we are all in full support of her and loathe scum like this. > Click to expand... I definitely realize that the majority of men on this site are very respectful; this asshat will NOT dissuade me from continuing to enjoy my time here. I will continue to deal with them when they show their ugly selves. Thanks guys

Just tell @BKwife they are probably intimidated by her. I feel if they have to that write that crap they have nothing better to do. I think it will take a lot more than stupid comments to keep her away.

That is upsetting. I will unapologetically say that many guys are idiots and need to use their frontal cortex and a good dose of manners when they see a body part that stimulates their penis. Yes, there is a woman there, not an object. Is it any wonder why caging up a penis can be so effective? Control the penis, control the behavior. Sometimes I think men are very simple; I’m sorry. Maybe I am a manhater, but behaviors like you mentioned are so aggravating. At the same time, I’m not surprised. (Btw obviously this rant does not apply to all of you respectful, well-mannered subs.) I hope your wife continues to share with us nevertheless. There needs to be more female support on here, and like her, it’s taken me sometime to become more comfortable, and I appreciate her sharing her experiences.

@Ma'am M, oh I'm definitely not gonna let this little loser ruin my fun at CM; no worries. Thank you for your kind words:)