Female led relationships discussion
Yesterday someone mentioned that she’s taking the wheel whenever we head out, effective immediately. I was just curious if other subs in similar setups have…
Yesterday someone mentioned that she’s taking the wheel whenever we head out, effective immediately. I was just curious if other subs in similar setups have also handed over driving duties to their KHs?
I’ve never had a Domme insist on always being the driver. That said, I’ve long held that whatever my partner desires is what gets honored (as long as hard limits are respected). So, just follow her lead. You’ll likely notice she tweaks things as she discovers her preferences. She might drive most days, while you handle longer journeys or when she’s weary and wants a drink. Everything will settle into place eventually. Just enjoy the ride.
> tomf_22033 said: > I’ve never had a Domme insist on always being the driver. That said, I’ve long held that whatever my partner desires is what gets honored (as long as hard limits are respected). > So, just follow her lead. You’ll likely notice she tweaks things as she discovers her preferences. She might drive most days, while you handle longer journeys or when she’s weary and wants a drink. Everything will settle into place eventually. Just enjoy the ride. Oh, I’m really enjoying it! She’s making adjustments, and I love every bit of it.
We do that too. Sometimes she instructs me to drive so she can unwind.
My Wife (KH) really dislikes driving...so I take the wheel...Simple!:)
My wife prefers that I drive. It’s a real treat for me when I get to just sit back and ride.