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It had only been a few months into our FL arrangement when my wife went through her transition. Her libido has dropped significantly, almost to the point of…

member_c8c3b3cee9 12 Sept 2026 #1

It had only been a few months into our FL arrangement when my wife went through her transition. Her libido has dropped significantly, almost to the point of being absent. She currently shows no desire for sex. While she’s been very understanding regarding my needs, I haven’t physically connected with her in weeks now, and frankly, it seems to bother her too.

Has anyone else experienced this? If you have, is there a solution that helps restore happiness?

member_0d69295e9c 15 Sept 2026 #2

I completely relate. A lot of it really hinges on your specific dynamic as a couple. We've found success by having her receive more massages and foot rubs; I also service some of her close friends for her enjoyment. Chastity, especially when locked up long-term, shifts to be about love and meeting her needs rather than just our sexual satisfaction. Staying in Chastity works regardless of how life changes around you, as long as you are dedicated to serving her. Your own rewards will evolve accordingly. Embrace the situation instead of fighting it.