Female led relationships discussion

A thought on chastity struck me deeply. We pledge our chastity to our Dommes and key holders alike. The device is a shared choice; our partner agrees to assist us in keeping that promise, yet the true weight lies in the vow’s holiness. To my mind, it remains simple, lovely, and genuine.

I share this view. Trusting our conduct and demeanor, ensuring we honor those promises, proves to our Dominant partners that we truly belong "to them." Especially in the early stages of our path, my wife required this reassurance to strengthen her self-assurance and authority. Now that she trusts my surrender is genuine, violating the sacredness of the vows I made would undermine her faith in my dedication.