Introductions discussion

I share a d/s dynamic with a Domme I met roughly twelve months back. She is wonderful and wants me in chastity more often, but the ring has been causing too much pain lately. This makes me consider getting a frenum piercing. I lean towards PA because there appears to be a wider selection of devices available, yet my main concern is having to sit down for urination indefinitely. My current mature metal device is lovely, but I struggle with sizing; if the ring is small it rubs against the sides of my scrotum, and if it’s large enough to avoid that, I can just slip out from under it, which defeats the purpose. Essentially, I want to get rid of both the ring irritation and security issues simultaneously by opting for a piercing. Does anyone here have this type of piercing or experience with it?