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Hi there, I've come to this forum to deepen my knowledge of chastity. I stumbled upon this site through a discussion group on Fetlife. My appreciation for…

member_2fc13966ca 12 Sept 2026 #1

Hi there,

I’ve come to this forum to deepen my knowledge of chastity. I stumbled upon this site through a discussion group on Fetlife.

My appreciation for the practice grew significantly when I discovered prostate orgasms that occur without ejaculation; they are incredibly deep and emotional, feeling very much like what women experience. Compared to these, typical male orgasms seem rather faint by comparison. Also, with our usual ejaculatory orgasms, we tend to lose sexual energy, leaving us feeling somewhat depleted.

Because of this, I am prepared to wear a chastity device for as long as my Mistress desires. I view the practice of being kept in chastity as an excellent method for converting my sexual energy into emotional and mental strength, which will deepen my submission. Perhaps I can also learn more about certain tantric exercises along the way.

My strong submissive sexual drive has been with me since early youth, though throughout most of my life I have suppressed this desire in various ways. Now I am clear on what I need. I am free from traditional relationships and no longer bogged down by career or other everyday demands, so I can fully devote myself to the right woman once we find each other. I hope it is not too late.

I see her as a strict yet sensual and loving Mistress who also has a sadistic side. I also hope to have the chance here to learn from some special ladies who possess experience in D/s dynamics and Female Led Relationships (FLR).

To introduce myself: I am an educated, intelligent, handsome, and tall man of 56 years old, originally from Serbia.

Thank you for taking the time to read my introduction. Best regards to everyone.