Female led relationships discussion

“So i did a biiiggg oops. I just started getting back to work and since i need to change at work panties dont work, so i unlocked to wear loose boxers (didnt have any tighties). Yesterday she asked how things down are doing. I stated i was unlocked. Well she is not impressed as no permission was given nor writen in contract. I jumped jn that cold cage quickly. I know im being punished for my indiscretion this weekend by paddling. Any other ideas of punishment? What would you do?”