Female led relationships discussion

Hi, I’ve convinced myself of something recently. No women enjoy Chastity and Female Led Relationships. I am a 20 year old guy from London and Chastity and Femdom is a massive part of who I am. I’ve had a couple of relationships and one where I was locked up on and off. I have a genuine question for any Dommes on this page or women. Are there women who actually like Female Led Relationships and Chastity. I just feel like, mostly online, its people doing it for the money. And it just makes me think whether its only something that really gets the guy going and not the girl. Its a horrible feeling when you feel like your sexual self isn’t compatible with society and possible girlfriends you might meet. I’ve had this horrible battle with myself recently. And I genuinely cannot enjoy it if I feel like its a chore for a girl i’m with. I am extremely mental when it comes to sex and chastity. Like a lot of girls assume im an Alpha as im quite a tall guy and not badly build but I really am not. I just want to find someone who is my best friend but also locks me up and cucks me. Anyway its just nice to connect. This isn’t an advertisement seeking said girl. Its more I just want to hear what the Dommes and guys in chastity think on this page. Guys: hows it been dating and finding people who are interested? how do you feel telling a perspective partner for the first time Women: Do you actually enjoy it?

> lockeduplondonboy98 said: > Hi, > I've convinced myself of something recently. No women enjoy Chastity and Female Led Relationships. > Click to expand... I need to introduce you to my GF. She gets her rocks off keeping my cock locked up, and she has a very dominant personality. If she was a little more emotionally mature (she's 22), she'd be a great FLR leader. But she enjoys that aspect of it as well (to the extent that we do that sort of thing). So there are indeed some out there.

AHH man i'm so happy for you. She sounds insaneeee! Giving me hope

I can’t speak for others but I would face quite a challenge if I were to give up chastity or our FLR. It isn’t something she brought up, but once we began she tinkered with it and is now exactly what is expected. It started out with a lot of teasing, ruined orgasms, milking, etc and ended more service and subbie oriented. I pleasure her when I can, she lets me out when she wants, no touching myself, and added certain routines and activities that ensure my headspace. I told her about chastity and my submissive side and she ran with it where she wanted to take it. She really liked me so decided to try it even though she had never thought of this stuff before. Within a few months she told me that she had never felt this way before and had no intention of ever going back. So yes some like this stuff, but I think many are unaware, and discover they like it after it is introduced.

You should be very careful with that hope. The reality is the number of women who deeply enjoy being devious keyholders is small. And the number of horny men who "think" they want their cocks locked up is very large. And the number of respectful men deserving of having their cocks locked up by a lovely Domme is somewhere inbetween. As some of the genuinely fantastic keyholders have mentioned on this site, if you're being realistic its somewhat unlikely you'll marry a lovely Domme and more likely you'll need to have a shared keyholder. That's not to say its impossible. You just need to be an extraordinary man to deserve such a woman 24/7 or very lucky o/

And I even ended up marrying her, and no the cage didn’t come off.