Female led relationships discussion

My wife/KH recently picked up a smaller metal cage for Christmas. I love the smug look it gives her. Honestly, getting used to it has been pretty smooth sailing. I occasionally apply some lotion around the ring. But one day lately, I wasn’t quick enough with something she wanted done. Unbeknownst to me, she had swapped out my usual lotion for Deep Heat. It was a great lesson learned: do as she says, and do it immediately. And if you’ve ever felt the sting of Deep Heat while trapped in your cage—OMG—it burns like crazy when there’s no way out.