Female led relationships discussion

I’ve dealt with ADD or ADHD since childhood. I get bored easily at work, procrastinate, and struggle to focus on tasks that don’t grab my interest. However, when something catches my excitement, I perform very well. My role involves a lot of writing, and I’ve even received awards for it. Yet, there are weeks where nothing gets finished.

I hoped to persuade my wife into adopting a more FLR dynamic with enforced chastity and spankings to keep me motivated. If she sets clear goals, keeps me locked until they’re met, and administers spankings or other punishment when necessary, I know I’d achieve much more.

She seems to think I only want this for sexual play. For me, it’s about more than that. I need it to help manage my overactive mind and finally improve my focus. She doesn’t realize how painful and discouraging ADD can be; I really dislike it.

Does anyone have thoughts on this? Thank you in advance.