Female led relationships discussion

Is there a limit to how much you want a female-led dynamic? It seems to be the main topic when I talk with most women. I make it clear that I’m interested in this setup, and their reactions range from being put off to giving me the green light. Then they often overlook my preference for an FLR and focus instead on their own desire to be dominated. I understand that relationships are built on love, trust, and respect—I’m happy to offer those—but am I expecting too much if I want someone with a stronger will or more sexual confidence?

Being needy never looks good.

I don't try to appear needy; I just aim for honesty. I want them to realize that I'm not looking for a standard arrangement.

Perhaps you should get to know each other in ways beyond just discussing the type of relationship you both want? Build some comfort and trust first, and see if you genuinely *like* one another. Yes, your preferences matter, but there is more to you than that. Bringing up 'vanilla vs. kinky' right on a first date might be scaring people away before they have a chance to decide if they like you as a person.