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Alright, courage secured - Check Shared a slightly unusual kink with my partner - Check Past the initial shock and now discussing it openly - check Laid out…

member_6c32ab982b 12 Sept 2026 #1

Alright, courage secured - Check Shared a slightly unusual kink with my partner - Check Past the initial shock and now discussing it openly - check Laid out in detail that I want to be a sub, a slave, fully submissive - check She’s eventually come around to taking charge - check Getting accustomed to making the decisions - check Quite content with this role of subservience - check Her confidence keeps growing -check Feeling more obedient and yielding now - check Her desires are being met on demand - check My needs get a hearing before final say - check Everything feels right in our D/s dynamic - check Trying to persuade her to let me lick her boots - uncheck The ongoing talks about when chastity release happens are grating on her nerves - uncheck I’m becoming petulant because I want my own desires catered for too - uncheck She’s starting to drift away a bit - uncheck Misery sets in as she doesn’t pander enough to what I need - uncheck Have you ever wondered if maybe things were good once, but due to impatience or some lack of honesty here and there, you kind of ruined it? I was fortunate; I enjoyed roughly 30 wonderful years in a Female-Led Relationship. Yes, occasionally we hit bumps along the way, but we never lost sight of that core value. The scenario I described above is quite typical. It’s like kneeling before her with an engagement ring held high just as she smiles and reaches for it—BANG! You slam it shut. A healthy FLR demands tons of emotional investment plus double that in honesty. It’s also a long-term lifestyle requiring remarkable resolve and patience. Why am I writing this? Well, many ask me how this dynamic can succeed or fail. The simple answer: stick to the core value! Just ensure both of you share it.