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A bit of context: I got this note on Instagram. My profile has never indicated any interest in sissies or crossdressing. How does he view serving as…

member_65fa0f18b2 12 Sept 2026 #1

A bit of context: I got this note on Instagram. My profile has never indicated any interest in sissies or crossdressing. How does he view serving as equivalent to feminizing? In what specific manner is his service directed toward me? Does he assume every dominant woman wishes to feminize a man? Or is he simply not thinking about it deeply?

member_1e22d29b73 13 Sept 2026 #2

He’s just asking any woman he perceives as dominant to command him to perform the tasks he desires.

member_5d137e0433 13 Sept 2026 #3

Let's see. The first impressions of his mindset are: selfless yet rude, and thinking with the wrong head. He’s not someone I’d want to be linked with.

member_65fa0f18b2 13 Sept 2026 #4

I figured that much out:) but does he really believe his feminization counts as service?

member_3b74dc9061 14 Sept 2026 #5

He’s a ‘stroker’ with terrible manners. I don’t get how attraction can exist without AT LEAST some rapport. God knows I’m far from perfect, but without familiarity, friendship, or love, I just couldn’t enjoy this lifestyle alongside someone else. At least you have the ‘block’ button available.

member_1e22d29b73 14 Sept 2026 #6

> L-u-c-y said: > I figured that much:) but does he really believe his feminization counts as service? > Click to expand... He wants you to serve him, while acting like he is serving you. He’s projecting his own wishes onto you.

member_65fa0f18b2 14 Sept 2026 #7

> Sthsde_cd said: > He wants you to serve him, while acting like he is serving you. > He’s projecting his own wishes onto you. > Click to expand... The next question arises: does he think he’ll ever find someone for this? Will he keep going forever or will he eventually learn?

member_e1c034dea7 15 Sept 2026 #8

Any introduction from a supposedly submissive person that starts with "I want" is basically an instant giveaway that true service isn't coming.