Female led relationships discussion

I’m an older gentleman who just hit the big 6-0. BK has been by my side through thick and thin for as long as I can remember. We had a fantastic sex life early on, and in recent years we’ve dabbled in Femdom, FLR, and chastity. From there, it’s a familiar tale. The self-centered husband demands more from his wife; she hates the strain and withdraws. Oh wait, we all know this story because most of us have lived through or read about it. I wish for a do-over. BK—and most women—deserve better. Not because they’re superior beings, but because they are our lovers, wives, and friends. Now here I am dealing with some health troubles. The tricky part is that things were going so well between BK and me right before this happened. She was truly embracing her role as a proper wife to BK. I was living out my dreams most of the time too. But now age and mortality are nipping at my heels, stealing away the joy and leaving me feeling downcast more often than not. I’m posting mainly to remind both the young and old among us to enjoy ourselves and cherish our partners so we don’t end up with regrets. Perhaps winning every argument isn’t as crucial in the grand scheme of things. Maybe if you ease off the gas, she has room to breathe and be herself. A bit of patience on your part now could yield huge rewards for both of you later. My health problems aren’t fatal; they just pause our fantasy lifestyle for a while. I know not everyone needs me to spell this out again, but I felt like saying it. It’s been ages since my last post, and I’ve missed being here.