Female led relationships discussion

Asking the subs here who keep their skin smooth for your KH. Have any of your Doctors ever brought up the hairless aspect? If they did, what was your response? My first appointment is coming up since we began our FLM journey. I’m feeling quite nervous about it; I might even let my body hair grow back until after I go in. However, I don’t really enjoy having body hair anymore. Any guidance would be appreciated.

Doctors and nurses simply do not care about this issue at all. They have witnessed it in every form possible.

A few years ago I experienced a heart issue and went to the Hospital without giving much thought to my Chastity status. At that time, I was hairless, wearing panties, had piercings, and wore a collar with a padlock. It was the night before we attended a private party where I ended up covered in whip and needle marks, with bruised buttocks. We considered it all perfectly normal for consenting adults. However, staff came in politely and asked me to leave, closing the door behind them. That lady mentioned that I was now safe; I didn't have to go home with my partner, and she asked if we needed them to file a report regarding our activities. After explaining everything thoroughly, they were convinced and left us alone. I mention this because it could easily have turned into a real issue. Sometimes in this Lifestyle, we forget that the outside world might not understand immediately, even though within our circle everyone loves each other and accepts it as normal. A lot of our friends laugh about those moments now, but back then we had to protect ourselves. My Mistress and I have since found a doctor in the LGBT Community who practices family medicine. We met with him, explained us and how we live (FLR), and I stripped down so he could examine my body fully—chastity cage, piercings, hairless—all of it. For the first time ever in a medical office setting, I felt completely at ease. I recommend doing what works best for both your Mistress and you. You can sit down together and explain everything to them if needed. Or just tell them you took up swimming; that excuse worked well enough for me back in school days. Ultimately, the decision rests with her and yourself... wishing you good luck.

No, doctors nowadays wouldn't find this strange at all. They might look twice if you still have the cage on but are shaved—so no, they really don't care less.

> LesterBallard said: > No, doctors nowadays wouldn't find this strange at all. They might look twice if you still have the cage on but are shaved—so no, they really don't care less. > Click to expand... Not even that much of an issue. A friend of mine had a situation where he collapsed while wearing his cage and panties. The doctors and nurses took excellent care of him. Sure, there were some smiles exchanged, but neither he nor his wife worried about those reactions. Their main concern was simply his survival and recovery. I've been shaving for decades now and I wear panties too. If a doctor doesn't like it, I'll just find another one. In fact, that's exactly what I did when one acted rudely toward me because I mentioned being bisexual. My current doctor only cares that I am safe.

> tomf_22033 said: > Not even that much of an issue. > > A friend of mine had a situation where he collapsed while wearing his cage and panties. The doctors and nurses took excellent care of him. Sure, there were some smiles exchanged, but neither he nor his wife worried about those reactions. Their main concern was simply his survival and recovery. > I've been shaving for decades now and I wear panties too. If a doctor doesn't like it, I'll just find another one. In fact, that's exactly what I did when one acted rudely toward me because I mentioned being bisexual. My current doctor only cares that I am safe. > > Click to expand... Rude regarding bisexuality? That must have happened in a different era entirely. Sorry about that experience.

I challenge you to find a professional football player with hairy arms, or a cyclist with hairy legs, or bodybuilders who aren't hairy everywhere. The first two groups shave to reduce friction from impacts; the latter do it because it highlights muscle contours. This doesn't even count people who treat shaving as a fashion statement. Body shaving is nothing to be ashamed of. No medical professional will question you about it unless there's a specific reason in a clinical context. They might ask if you've had cancer, since chemotherapy drugs and radiation can both cause hair loss, and some diseases naturally lead to hair thinning or falling out. But nobody will judge you for having less body hair.

A shaved body shouldn't pose any problem for a doctor or nurse... Still wearing the chastity device might raise some eyebrows and invite questions... but mostly that won't even be an issue at all. Rope marks, cuff impressions, whip welts, bruises, etc., can raise more serious inquiries. In those cases, it depends on how open-minded the doctors are being. Be honest and explain your situation if needed. If necessary, arrange one-on-one sessions with the doctor (you and partner) to discuss your relationship dynamics and kinks.

> sixofthebest said: > Rude regarding bisexuality? That must have happened in a different era entirely. Sorry about that experience. > > Click to expand... Thanks for the comment. Even worse, I called ahead and asked if they were alt lifestyle friendly before booking my appointment. She had good reviews, which made her behavior even more annoying given those credentials. To make matters worse, she was only interested in me getting a colonoscopy and didn't seem to care about other health issues I mentioned. I have since moved locations and now have an amazing Dr. who is very caring. She has handed me lots of condoms when we discussed my bisexuality.