Female led relationships discussion

Kadira and I were winding down in bed last night, chatting away when I accidentally spoke too soon. We discussed her letting me have orgasms, and for some reason, I mentioned that my main hope while pampering her is to earn the go-ahead for PIV plus an orgasm. It wasn’t a direct quote, but Kadira quickly grasped what I meant and pointed out that her Hitachi doesn’t expect such things from me. I trust she won’t mind too much.

To clarify a bit: he wasn't complaining about not pleasing me for the pure joy of it; rather, his argument was that by doing so, he'd get laid and reach an orgasm. He acts as if everything he does for her is solely to secure PIV, seemingly missing the point that being allowed to please her should be enough because she asks him to, not just because it serves his own ends... unfortunately, he didn't quite catch the issue with his logic and stood by his statement.....which is why I asked him to share this here so others can see where his reasoning goes astray. He’s convinced of his rightness. Tsk tsk