Female led relationships discussion

When things go awry, how do you handle it? What sorts of missteps have bad slaves committed to irritate their Females, and what were the consequences?

I failed to follow through on a few everyday instructions. She pointed out that I was treating this like a game we're playing together, and she looked let down by it. Naturally, I felt guilty. I’ve asked her multiple times if I could fetch her hairbrush, but she keeps delaying the answer. I’m not sure why. It seems illogical to me unless she simply lacks the urge to discipline me physically. Since we love each other deeply, perhaps she just isn't quite prepared yet. Still, I’ll bring it up again this evening.

> Changeable said: > I failed to follow through on a few everyday instructions. > She pointed out that I was treating this like a game we're playing together, and she looked let down by it. > Naturally, I felt guilty. I’ve asked her multiple times if I could fetch her hairbrush, but she keeps delaying the answer. > I’m not sure why. It seems illogical to me unless she simply lacks the urge to discipline me physically. > Since we love each other deeply, perhaps she just isn't quite prepared yet. > Still, I’ll bring it up again this evening > Click to expand... Does she suspect you’re being passive-aggressive and disobedient merely as a way to solicit punishment?

> Changeable said: > I failed to follow through on a few everyday instructions. > She pointed out that I was treating this like a game we're playing together, and she looked let down by it. > Naturally, I felt guilty. I’ve asked her multiple times if I could fetch her hairbrush, but she keeps delaying the answer. > I’m not sure why. It seems illogical to me unless she simply lacks the urge to discipline me physically. > Since we love each other deeply, perhaps she just isn't quite prepared yet. > Still, I’ll bring it up again this evening > Click to expand... I won’t throw around that "topping from the bottom" phrase since it’s become so clichéd as to be meaningless. If she wants to punish you, she needs to hold the reins on when and how those punishments happen. You can make a suggestion once or twice, but if you keep bringing it up repeatedly, she isn’t punishing you; she is just catering to your wishes.

That’s not my intention at all. I simply want her to realize I am taking this seriously. Moreover, while it would make me feel better, my primary concern isn't really about my own feelings—it's about how she perceives things. I suppose I should stop harping on the subject and just comply moving forward. Let actions speak louder than words.