Female led relationships discussion

My partner and I have been together for over a decade. We care deeply for one another and share a lovely life. Our sexual frequency could be higher, but when we do connect, it is genuinely good. It would be great if she took the lead on bringing up intimacy more often. What about you? Have you noticed similar patterns in how your partner gets turned on and involved?

Which topic are we discussing? Intimacy? Are you wearing a lock? Could use some more context.