Female led relationships discussion

My wife and I need to find something for her to wear, really just items she can don. Currently, we lack any pieces in our wardrobe, and visuals play a major role for both of us. We’ve discovered plenty of choices made from PVC, latex, leather, and more. At the moment, we’re seeking suggestions for ‘dominant’ attire that falls outside those usual materials but is available at standard retail shops. One idea I have involves wearing military trousers paired with thigh-high boots (with or without heels) along with a specific type of top. Any advice would be great; concrete examples are especially helpful:P I’ve done some research, but unfortunately, assembling outfits isn’t my strongest suit.