Female led relationships discussion

So I live in a small conservative town, but my wife and I are heading to a bigger city soon for an overnight trip. My vanilla spouse is somewhat keen on taking on more duties and responsibilities within an FLR, though she feels nervous and unsure about much of it. We’d like to visit an experienced Dom who can show us the ropes. What do you think is the best approach to finding a trustworthy and seasoned Dom in a larger city?

Are you on Fetlife? They have groups based on location there. The mods or regular members can usually be trusted to offer good advice and support. Good luck!