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Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

"One week? One year? Multiple breaks with orgasms. Without orgasms? Very few breaks? So what do you consider long term chastity?"

member_826d351f4f 13 Sept 2026 #1

“One week? One year? Multiple breaks with orgasms. Without orgasms? Very few breaks? So what do you consider long term chastity?”

member_05240902ed 13 Sept 2026 #2

> Clearstatic said: > "One week? One year? > Multiple breaks with orgasms. Without orgasms? > Very few breaks? > So what do you consider long term chastity?" > Click to expand... A year or more without orgasm

member_381064b05f 14 Sept 2026 #3

For most guys, I'd suggest that long term starts around 3 months, no orgasm. This is almost, but not quite, completely arbitrary on my part; years of reading various forums suggest to me that most guys can last a few weeks without an orgasm, but after two months there's a lot of self control involved. Three months is a mental milestone of 90 days, or if you're decimally inclined, 100 days. And for most guys, three months is a realistic time period - it's one season in New England, for example. It could lead to 4 orgasms per year, which is a good goal to look forward to. My own experience is that after two months, I'll have some kind of emission in my cage, anyhow. Going a full year takes some pretty serious dedication, and may not be reasonable for a lot of guys new at this. Doctor's visits, flights, medical procedures, jury duty, high risk or high security jobs could potentially lead to needing to remove the device, providing opportunity for temptation.

member_68b7d7a12b 14 Sept 2026 #4

In my case permanent

member_bdd8771653 15 Sept 2026 #5

i don’t think there are many wrong answers. first time i have been locked for months, it was long term compared to longest i had been by then, weeks. now my fate is eternal chastity, since four months. i know that technically i will have very short breaks for taking the plane (not often), but eternal denial of orgasms will forever stand. that is long term, i think...:)

member_381064b05f 15 Sept 2026 #6

> Bertha said: > "i don’t think there are many wrong answers." > Click to expand... Is this your first week on the internet?:cool: