Female led relationships discussion

Alright, recently reality hit home. My kh was spending money on her very old and dying pet. I really don’t have that kind of cash. The financial situation was getting worrying. I just need to protect our fiscal health when it counts (although I expect things to improve financially later this year). So, I finally had to speak up about it, and we argued. I rebelled and used the emergency key to get my cage off, reverting us back to a vanilla, arguing couple. Of course, only a few days later the pet passed away. We both cried. It was pitiful and so sad. Now I am struggling to convince her that I truly want her in an flr again. It really makes her happy. But it’s hard to get her to try once more. She is quite bitter about my going back on the flr. I have offered to be locked up after a severe beating. I asked her to take recognizable blackmail pictures of me post-beating showing where the strap left marks on my back, ass, and legs. Also, I requested she take blackmail photos of me in my cage with my chastity device engaged. I’ve asked her to keep both keys for the cb, so no more emergency key access. And, I have asked her to lock up all the Cialis pills. She would have complete control over my penis in every way. I offered that she should manage the finances and put me on an allowance this time, even though my name stays on the account. I reminded her that she is free to cuck me if she wants. Actually, I love the idea of being cucked by her and have told her repeatedly. Finally, I pointed out that if I rebel again, she still has her hairbrush, paddle, crop, and belt, so she should stop fearing using them. Still, she is on the fence. Is there anything else I can do or say to entice her back to where we were before? Any ideas? Or should I give it up?

Have you talked about why you did what you did with her? Everyone's dynamic is different. If your end goal is for her to have total control of your relationship then you shouldn't have acted out. If finances are a hard limit then you should sit down and have an honest discussion about your comfort level. Money is a tough subject no doubt. I would not label my marriage flr. But around the house what my wife says is what usually happens. We both have strengths and weaknesses. Her weakness is money management. Her strength is family planning. She makes the plans like family and trips, and other outings, we talk to make sure they fit in our budget. She holds the vision for our household. If there is a project that the house needs she's in charge of design and has the last say. E.g. home addition, patios, deck construction, etc. Then I make sure we can afford it and if not she adjust as needed. An aging pet is tough. We had a situation with a pet that needed serious medical help and the outcome didn't look all the Rosey. We talked, put our emotions aside and agreed it was best to put the pet down. Did you have a good sit down conversation about the pet? Communication is definitely key.

I am very sad to hear about your pet dying. I spect it was a dog or a cat and its very sad when that happens. I hope you dont get paddled.