Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

It is clear that chastity benefits men. It directs their attention to their Lady and her pleasure instead of just their own penis. If a man is given freedom but ejaculates before receiving permission, should he face punishment? And if so, how harsh should it be?

If my husband ejaculates without permission, he receives 25 strokes with the tawse. If he does it while lying across my lap during a spanking session, those 25 strokes count first, and then we start the spanking over from scratch. He needs to hold out without cumming. I will continue both tawsing and spankings as long as needed. Typically, he cums three times, resulting in three tawse beatings and four hairbrush or paddle spankings. He also has to consume any ejaculate produced during unauthorized moments.

> Cecilia B said: > If my husband ejaculates without permission, he receives 25 strokes with the tawse. If he does it while lying across my lap during a spanking session, those 25 strokes count first, and then we start the spanking over from scratch. He needs to hold out without cumming. I will continue both tawsing and spankings as long as needed. Typically, he cums three times, resulting in three tawse beatings and four hairbrush or paddle spankings. > He also has to consume any ejaculate produced during unauthorized moments. > Click to expand... Thank you very much, Miss Cecilia, for your reply. I believe men need positive reinforcement regarding obedience. Your method seems like an excellent way to keep him in his role as a submissive man in a cage.

My wife told me that if I did something like that, I wouldn't cum for at least a year and would never leave the house from my cage alone again. I once considered doing it just to tell her afterwards to see if she was serious...but decided it wasn't worth the risk lol! It's a lose-lose situation. If I find out she wasn't being serious, she loses credibility. If she is serious, I have broken her trust and must wear my cage constantly plus require supervision when I am not wearing it. Also...I wouldn't cum for a whole year!

Any unauthorized ejaculations mean I have to go over my wife's knees for a pretty serious spanking.

I can't recall the last time that happened. However, Miss Amanda decides whether or not to punish me based on the situation, my attitude and contrition, and whether she feels punishment will help ensure I try harder next time. That is how she handles any misbehavior or lapses in self-control.

> NorCalMan said: > Any unauthorized ejaculations mean I have to go over my wife's knees for a pretty serious spanking. > Click to expand... That sounds interesting, NorCalMan. How severe is this 'significant' spanking? Does it stop you from having those unapproved orgasms?

My husband had an unauthorized ejaculation about 20 days ago. He writes lines every day: "I obey Sweetness and I only cum when She permits it." He does 25 each day and also serves cage time. We are relatively new to using a cage, so the sentence is set at 256 hours (16 hours per day for 16 days until the next scheduled release). The cage time didn't begin immediately, nor is it full-time yet.