Female led relationships discussion

The perfect FLR; Total Resonance! Yet, is it truly there? Domination operates as a mindset and an expression of inner strength, while the visual aspect acts as the finishing touch that brings this power to the surface. You can certainly wear your role well. Being a slave is also largely mental state, so many mistakenly view it merely as a prop. This isn’t the case at all; both roles hold energies requiring fuel to stay alive. To those outside the lifestyle (vanilla), one side appears enjoyable while the other seems pitiful and odd, but that’s exactly what defines vanilla folk—they lack the specific energies we possess.

But how numerous are the couples dealing with energy drift? It begins so strongly, yet gradually feels worn out or demanding extra effort. Blame may start to surface as one partner perceives less effort from the other. There it is: having to make an effort! When did that become part of the agreement? I mean, shouldn’t it feel natural? A dominant woman and a submissive man uniting in glorious, harmonious D/s bliss.

FLR seems to signify countless things to countless people. Most are driven by bottom-toppers accepting bearable tolerance, with only a tiny fraction experiencing complete TPE. Many will claim ‘all flavors work’ or ‘whatever suits you.’ As my old granny liked to say: ‘Total nonsense, do it properly or don’t bother at all.’ My granny had wisdom in her:)

Please skip the replies; I have no interest in your perspective, nor any reason to care. Hasta la vista!