Female led relationships discussion

When my sub first brought up an FLR, I was completely new to it. All I knew were those over-the-top dominant women from porn, which didn’t feel like me at all. But after doing plenty of reading and chatting with other dommes, I realized this way of life suited me perfectly.

Control is what I’ve always craved. He stays in chastity unless I decide to take him, though that happens less often now since I’ve discovered many other ways to get pleasure myself. Still, I do enjoy rewarding him by unlocking him for an orgasm. The sense of power while teasing him with the cage on is tremendous.

I discipline him when needed, which gives me even more of that control satisfaction. It’s something I never thought I’d be able to do to the man I love, but it works wonderfully! Living this way meets all my desires and needs.

It's great that you see the benefits in that lifestyle. I'm interested in the FLR but just unsure how far I'd want to take it.

> John said: > Great that you see advantages in that lifestyle. I'm curious about the FLR just not sure how far I would be interested in going. > Click to expand... We weren't sure how far we wanted it to go either, but we let it develop naturally in whatever directions felt right for us. It's still evolving as we learn more about our shared and individual needs.