Female led relationships discussion

Hello, I have a question for the ladies. If your husband decided, for whatever reason, that he no longer wanted to continue with FLR, would you be willing to leave it behind in favor of a standard relationship? It’s not impossible—people do change, particularly after significant life events. Would you give up FLR suddenly and without further service or chastity, or would that feel like too much of a compromise?

I am responding on behalf of my madam, Absolutely not. Being dominant is deep in my core, and once I discovered Bdsm and the fetish scene I knew I had found home. Once our relationship progressed to FLR I knew I would never go back. I want to be in charge and control all of the aspects of our day-to-day life. And I would be able to have anything else now.

> madams-sissysub said: > I am answering this on behalf of my madam, > Absolutely not. Being dominant is down at my very core, and once I discovered Bdsm and the fetish scene I knew I had found home. Once our relationship progressed to FLR I knew I would never go back. I want to be in charge and control all of the aspects of our day-to-day life. > And I would be able to have anything else now. > Click to expand... Does it make you feel expendable?

> eoniss said: > Hello, > this is question for the ladies. Would you accept to quit FLR for a normal relationship with your husband if he decided for any reason that he didn't want to do it anymore. Although it's an unlikely scenario, people can change especially if a major event happens in their life. Would you accept to abandon FLR overnight with no more servitude and chastity or would it be a deal breaker? > Click to expand... My wife says she can't imagine living any other way. The kink, perhaps, could fade or change, we could go back to vanilla sex, but after 5 years of this, I don't see our relationship working without her in charge... or to put it another way, our relationship *is *her in charge.

We've taken a few weeks off as a friend has died and we are in mourning. However my wife is starting to take back control so I guess we quit for a short period but it will soon be back on course (starting tonight!) to the 24/7 FLR that we both know works best

> eoniss said: > Does it make you feel expendable? > Click to expand... Quite the opposite, if our relationship was a business she would be manager, and I would be her Personal assistant, I do all the mundane parts of things so she doesn’t have to. Such as when shopping I push the cart, she chooses what we get, then I load up at the till, pack and pay and load the car, then I unload and put everything away when home, while madam sits down with a coffee, This is how most of our life is, and madam often says she wouldn’t know what she would do without me.

thank you for an interesting question. Moving into a FLR took time. My attraction to my Wife came from Her strength. i am a foot taller, but Her personal fortitude and power surrounded her making the physical concept of power irrelevant. Society had taught her that a strong male was a go-getter, a strong female was a bitch. Misogyny rules. The move to an FLR took 8 years to emerge, and almost 8 years later, with help, it is continuing to grow and form. It truly is a most natural and honest existence, one that should have been blatantly obvious from the outset. When i posed the question of her desire to move back to vanilla, Her question was "Now why on earth would I want to ever go back?" i mirror her question.

> madams-sissysub said: > I push the cart, she chooses what we get, then I load up at the till, pack and pay and load the car, then I unload and put everything away when home, while madam sits down with a coffee, > This is how most of our life is, and madam often says she wouldn’t know what she would do without me. > Click to expand... But that sounds like she loves having all those chores be done, regardless of who did it. > Dontint said: > When i posed the question of her desire to move back to vanilla, Her question was "Now why on earth would I want to ever go back?" i mirror her question. > Click to expand... From her perspective, it makes sense since she's leading. Why would she want to go back to a balanced relationship if you aren't asking? But what would be her reaction if YOU decided to go back to where you were 8 years ago. Apparently you don't want to, but we're making theories here.