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Not sure where to put this thread. I figured either here or in toys? Anyway, I have been thinking about getting a shock collar to wear around my balls while…

member_d0854ad1c7 13 Sept 2026 #1

Not sure where to put this thread. I figured either here or in toys? Anyway, I have been thinking about getting a shock collar to wear around my balls while caged since I am mostly 24/7 by my KH. Thinking this could be one of her birthday presents coming up at the end of this month. Use the shocker for maybe play, but mainly training. I have been looking into this for a bit. Both searching here on the mansion and Google. I am looking for something very small with adjustable control for both vibration and shock. Would like to be able to make it lockable. And as we would be trying this out for the first time not drop a lot of coin. If it works out well, then we can always upgrade. I understand modifications to the hardware will most likely be needed to work as I envision. Not hard to come to that conclusion from what I have seen in searching. And understanding the way we would be using this shocker is outside the manufacturer intention. I am fully capable of doing said modifications, but would like to start with something that is closest to hitting the needs listed above. I found this on Amazon. Seems like a good starting point? Small, seems as though a small lock could be used on the collar. Also rounded for more comfortable wear.

I would imagine this would be for select times. To say not 24/7 wear like the cage. For instance around the house some evenings. Going out as well? From what I have gathered it seems like this is what most do. As wear is never that comfortable, not talking about the shock, or practical for long time wear. So my questions. For those of you that use something like this, what exact unit do you have? What are your dislikes / likes and why. What modifications did you make? Pictures if possible of wearing it? Thanks

member_ae05d40232 13 Sept 2026 #2

Try this one [[Image: 61SxxXDv6OL._SX522_.jpg]](the referenced community page) **Male Ring Men Male Ring Charging Remote Control Electric Shock Male Ring & Neck Collar Male Electro Stimulation Men Ball Ring Vibrating BDSM.**

member_12188d7bd9 14 Sept 2026 #3

Note that there's not much point in locking the collar if the unit can be turned off without the remote. I have a unit that can only be turned on/off by placing the remote right next to it and pressing one of the remote buttons (Innotek UltraSmart). Unfortunately, that one appears not be in production anymore.

member_01207369e7 14 Sept 2026 #4

Be aware that at the higher settings 76% and above the metal cage on your penis may go live. I have had some interesting ring burns where it has been used extensively on me, usually at 100%. If 76%, she is being gentle although it still puts me on my knees in seconds. You may also experience burns where the probes touch the scrotum and this makes wearing the chastity cage quite painful after enthusiastic use by your Mistress.

member_d0854ad1c7 14 Sept 2026 #5

Zorglub, good point. The first few I looked at had the functionality of being turned off and on by the remote, or the receiver would just stay on with no power button. Will need to find those again. Looking back at the most recent ones I have looked at and the one I posted has a power button. So I need to keep looking for a good fit. The other one posted above if ordered right now may not get here before my KH birthday. And that one has a power button as well. This is something I am not planning on springing on her without talking about first. I brought it up this weekend. We are going to talk about it more tonight. Maybe we just set a drastic punishment for me interfering with it while it's on. So that either taking it off or turning it off without her permission would be worse than leaving it on if she is shocking me a lot? But I would really like to find something that as lockable, small, and has no power button on the shock unit.

member_5d137e0433 15 Sept 2026 #6

My avatar the purple strap is one that I put together. It is the one for large dogs. It does work well but would not be good for long term; I have been it for several hours. it locks on via the strap. Check craigs list for a unit for sale.