Female led relationships discussion

My Queen and I marked our 20th anniversary last night after two decades together. It was a fantastic day and evening filled with surprises. We got to the hotel where flowers were waiting for her, which put her in high spirits. The real surprise happened when I knelt down, handed over a box, talked about how wonderful these past 20 years have been—the best of my life—and proposed we renew our wedding vows. She said yes! She is absolutely loving her new diamonds lol. I am so happy right now. If you check out another post of mine on the forum, you will see that I was previously handling FLR incorrectly by pushing too hard on my Queen. After taking all your feedback to heart, I have learned to slow down and stay quiet, allowing her to progress at her own speed. This approach is much better for both of us; I no longer feel the frustration I used to when pressuring her, which is great news. We are aiming to renew our vows on August 20th. I need your advice: should I explicitly tell her that there will be no sex before marriage, or should I stay silent and see if she brings it up?

> little minion said: > My Queen and I marked our 20th anniversary last night after two decades together. It was a fantastic day and evening filled with surprises. We got to the hotel where flowers were waiting for her, which put her in high spirits. The real surprise happened when I knelt down, handed over a box, talked about how wonderful these past 20 years have been—the best of my life—and proposed we renew our wedding vows. She said yes! She is absolutely loving her new diamonds lol. I am so happy right now. If you check out another post of mine on the forum, you will see that I was previously handling FLR incorrectly by pushing too hard on my Queen. After taking all your feedback to heart, I have learned to slow down and stay quiet, allowing her to progress at her own speed. This approach is much better for both of us; I no longer feel the frustration I used to when pressuring her, which is great news. We are aiming to renew our vows on August 20th. I need your advice: should I explicitly tell her that there will be no sex before marriage, or should I stay silent and see if she brings it up? > Click to expand... Congratulations on two decades together. May you have many more ahead of you. Just don't ruin the progress you've made. Continue letting her guide what happens by listening closely, and avoid forcing issues.