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"In female-led relationships, the mistress frequently employs traditional BDSM methods: corporal punishments, caning, bondage, chastity and more. To my mind…

member_1f6e52af9b 13 Sept 2026 #1

“In female-led relationships, the mistress frequently employs traditional BDSM methods: corporal punishments, caning, bondage, chastity and more. To my mind it’s a surface-level thing, and I don’t get to hear much about psychological torture which seems far harsher than just physical pain. I would love for you to share examples of this type of torment.”,

member_05240902ed 14 Sept 2026 #2

> eoniss said: > "In female-led relationships, the mistress frequently employs traditional BDSM methods: corporal punishments, caning, bondage, chastity and more. To my mind it's a surface-level thing, and I don't get to hear much about psychological torture which seems far harsher than just physical pain. I would love for you to share examples of this type of torment. > Click to expand... It may not strictly be psychological torture; but it is mentally demanding: my Wife occasionally asks when I last came, and the last time I said five weeks ago. She replied "Oh, I thought it was only a week" as if she couldn't care less about what I'm enduring. Or she asks how my balls feel. If I tell her they are about to burst, she'll just say something like "good, good." Sometimes My Wife tells me that tomorrow I will be allowed to cum; but when the next day arrives she simply says another time instead, and so on. Also, she has completely banned me from pussy: I can only look at it. She knows I love oral sex. > Click to expand...

member_1f6e52af9b 14 Sept 2026 #3

> buildup said: > "It may not strictly be psychological torture; but it is mentally demanding: my Wife occasionally asks when I last came..." > Click to expand... I believe that actually counts as psychological torture; she's really messing with your head.

member_01207369e7 15 Sept 2026 #4

"For me the emotional or psychological side of things hurts far worse than physical punishment. Being treated like an object rather than a human being, and never quite doing anything right—it hurts after a while and makes me feel worthless even when I'm trying my best. There are always physical punishments and degradation layered on top, but I handle those better.",