Introductions discussion

I’m a new member I have been reading this site for about 3 weeks. Three weeks ago my wife bought me a chastity cage it was my idea but I wanted her consent first. Let me back track we start FLR about 6 months ago. The first 2 weeks went great, but then I had a few hard days at work and she gave me “the day off” a few of them I might add. After the second month it seamed like we went back to a partnership 50/50 to her. To me more 25/75 with me in control. My job is stressful I have a lot of coworkers wanting to boss me around and I have to stand up for my self. When I first found out about female led relationships “I was looking for kinky sex” but I read that it puts responsibility on the wife and takes some of the stresses of life away. I told my wife I wanted a female led relationship and explained what it was to the best of my understanding. Long story short I didn’t feel like I was in one until I was in the cage for three days after that things have been accelerating at a fast pace !!!!Please ask me anything because I don’t want to make my first post so long and fell like I’m leaving a lot out

Welcome @Boi911! I'm sure that you will enjoy learning from other's experiences here. You are in a tough situation, wanting/needing to be submissive to the FLR at home and yet not wanting to submit to the difficult people at work. IMHO, that will require extraordinary communication with your wife/KH so that She understands the dynamic at work and leads and supports you through it. She is clearly the boss! Those at work are not. Pleas post often as you journey evolves.