Female led relationships discussion

My wife shared details about our activities with my sister-in-law, adding to the friends who are already aware. I’m still figuring out how that makes me feel. With pals, it often starts as a couple of tipsy remarks over drinks, but family gossip has a different weight. We have one female friend who is in on much more. Her usual take is that we go see a professional domme—describing her as ‘very nice’ to us and ‘really strict with me,’ which she enjoys—and I’m there watching. There aren’t many extra specifics, from what it seems. She treats our dynamic like visiting the spa or practicing yoga.