Introductions discussion

Hi all! I wanted to drop a greeting for everyone on this excellent board. I’m just beginning my path right now. In my forties, I’ve recently become deeply engaged with an amazing woman in an FLR arrangement. Since it’s our first time doing both things together, any helpful tips would be much appreciated. I’d been curious about chastity for years but hadn’t owned or worn a cage until just two weeks ago. It can be tough getting everything tucked away! My penis is usually on the smaller side when soft, so perhaps the constant arousal I’m feeling is making it trickier. I’m holding out for nearly full days now, taking only five minutes off to shower. The biggest headache has been nighttime erections. Every morning around 4am my cock forces against the cage and turns blue! It seems others here face this too, so maybe it’s a common early hurdle? Well, I left mine on today for the first time! I dealt with two known erections overnight, and they’ve settled down by now. Do you think this gets easier? The lack of sexual release is something new to me, and honestly, it feels amazing! Never felt such prolonged excitement before. That said, not being able to touch myself is maddening! That’s my update! Hope to chat with some of you soon. Best wishes Ulex.

hi and welcome. Nighttime can be tough indeed. Does it improve? Maybe... fingers crossed!