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I crossed over from fetlife this morning... I've been in chastity for just a month and a half now... But I have felt like being a slave for ages... About…

member_cb00c8732c 13 Sept 2026 #1

I crossed over from fetlife this morning… I’ve been in chastity for just a month and a half now… But I have felt like being a slave for ages… About me: My name is Anthony, swm, 55. I was born with Cerebral Palsy affecting both legs and was adopted at the age of one and a half years old. Around twenty-five, I realized that I enjoyed handing over control but wasn’t sure how to communicate it… The internet arrived in my life back in the late nineties, leading me into Yaho and google groups focused on BDSM themes… Earlier this year, I met a cam model who acted as a domme; she began training me via Skype with the goal of having me serve her physically soon. Under her guidance, I purchased a chastity device and started wearing it after she had someone lock it on during a video call… Additionally, I’ve been practicing ball gag wear for roughly three weeks now, doing four hours daily, with next week marking five hours a day… Per her orders, never at night or while sleeping. Recently, I was preparing the paperwork to get my passport so I could relocate to Her country, but I found that the application wouldn’t accept a birth certificate without parents listed… Because I am adopted, they didn’t allow listing my biological parents, and Pennsylvania refuses to disclose them to an adopted child. They also won’t issue a new birth certificate for an adopted child with the adoptive parents shown… So now I’m stuck looking for an owner who lives in the US. Ideally, this is for a 24/7/365/lifetime position… I will offer TPE (Total Power Exchange) to Her. Male doms are not really my scene. I apologize if this deters anyone.

member_261c7352c4 14 Sept 2026 #2

hello and welcome. You might want to check out the Personal Ads section further down on the main page. Be careful though. There are some dodgy people around.