Introductions discussion

Hey there! Colt here. I’m a 29-year-old submissive fellow from Beaverton, Oregon, still figuring things out. Throughout my life, I’ve always been quite empathetic and quiet, leaning heavily towards pleasing others—especially my two older sisters and mom, who essentially raised me to be that polite, well-behaved boy. Hehe.

Even they aren’t aware of how long I’ve battled with gender dysphoria. It was only recently that I stumbled upon the amazing realm of BDSM, particularly discovering my favorite dynamics: FLR and D/s relationships.

For me, it feels more like therapy than a mere fetish. There’s something therapeutic about being told by strong female authority figures that it is perfectly fine to be submissive. Reassurance helps immensely. That’s when the subspace takes over and my dysphoria fades into the background. I hope you all find your own special spots within this great community.

I have to admit, I’m a bit terrified of this site’s owner. LOL! If you’re reading this: yes, I’ve been through your stories, and omfg lol, please tell me that creative writing is only part of the story there? I feel like there’s a sacred element in D/s relationships that sometimes gets lost amidst excessive gratuity, which was really why I stayed away from places like this for so long.

Glad to be here! Any advice would be welcome as I’m essentially a newbie to submission while searching for my domme. -_o

hello and welcome