Introductions discussion

Hi there, As a newcomer to this forum, I want to introduce myself. I am a fortunate man from Berlin, aged 42. I’ve discovered something that seems new to me: FLR… Female Led Relationship. Currently, my relationship is “normal” and works well enough day-to-day, but it lacks intimacy. To be honest, I had an affair for several years with the same woman. However, I always felt her side was mostly just sex, whereas I sought something deeper that remained elusive. Now I understand what appeals to me: ending the affair to commit to a 24/7 Female Led Relationship. Ideally, this would be with my current girlfriend, but starting is proving difficult. I hope others can share how they managed their “coming out” and live with the unusual dynamic of serving her without becoming too weak, given that I am usually the dominant one in both love and work. I have a clear vision for living an FLR life and believe it will greatly enhance our bond; my struggle lies simply in making the announcement. Looking forward to your suggestions or personal accounts. Piet

Hello! Welcome and best of luck with your search.