Female led relationships discussion
Hi there! I hope everyone is doing great today! I’d like to talk about improving how we take direction and showing vulnerability to our Dommes, Mistresses,…
Hi there! I hope everyone is doing great today! I’d like to talk about improving how we take direction and showing vulnerability to our Dommes, Mistresses, Ma’ams, or whoever else it may be, without snapping back or retaliating. This is something I wrestle with personally, and I want to get a clearer picture of it. I’m also interested in hearing how other dynamics navigate these hiccups without things blowing up.
My wife/KH/Mistress has no patience for back talk. It’s a firm rule that results in swift and hard slaps if broken. If we’re somewhere where she can’t slap me physically, she finds other ways to enforce it. About a month ago at the airport, I talked back to her, and she gave my inner arm (just below the armpit) a sharp pinch—ouch! However, I am able to express disagreement or displeasure as long as I do so respectfully and appropriately. If you’re trying to self-regulate your communication, it really comes down to self-control. If you can surrender control of your orgasm to her, surely you possess the self-discipline to master that urge to talk back? If you need her assistance in this area, training focuses on both positive and negative reinforcement.