Female led relationships discussion

My wife shared today that she was looking into sexting, but the resources available didn’t quite click for her. Most of what she read focused on preferences from a male perspective—what he wants her to wear or how he plans to act. She is aiming for advice tailored more toward men who are currently locked away. On the flip side, she came across guides suggesting that women should communicate their intentions clearly—for example, explaining what they plan to do during a date night. However, our situation lacks the certainty of physical intimacy in return. There could be kids resisting bedtime, unexpected sickness, or just general fatigue getting in the way. She wants to engage in sexting without feeling pressured to follow through on every message with action. It’s about maintaining that bond between us. I wondered if assigning tasks might work well here. Does anyone have ideas or tips for men practicing chastity who want to try this?

Everyone > Clearstatic said: > My wife shared today that she was looking into sexting, but the resources available didn't quite click for her. > Most of what she read focused on preferences from a male perspective—what he wants her to wear or how he plans to act. She is aiming for advice tailored more toward men who are currently locked away. > On the flip side, she came across guides suggesting that women should communicate their intentions clearly—for example, explaining what they plan to do during a date night. > However, our situation lacks the certainty of physical intimacy in return. There could be kids resisting bedtime, unexpected sickness, or just general fatigue getting in the way. > She wants to engage in sexting without feeling pressured to follow through on every message with action. It's about maintaining that bond between us. I wondered if assigning tasks might work well here. > Does anyone have ideas or tips for men practicing chastity who want to try this? > Click to expand... She simply needs to text her thoughts, and your mind will fill in the rest.

She can generate content that gets her going. Why worry about what stimulates others? She should share things she personally enjoys. And you need to learn how to respond in ways that excite her.