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Back when we began our 24/7 arrangement sixteen months ago, I had a fixed period of days before I could remind her that my time was up for unlocking.…

member_c8c3b3cee9 13 Sept 2026 #1

Back when we began our 24/7 arrangement sixteen months ago, I had a fixed period of days before I could remind her that my time was up for unlocking. Naturally, what happened during that window depended on her and the timing.

I’ve noticed over this time that my impatience has nearly vanished. Usually, two days before my release date, I’d start hinting to her about it. Of course, that tended to annoy her more than help. What stands out now is how my affection for her multiplies as long as I stay locked up. I cherish this sensation and want it to continue.

Now, when my time comes around, I wait days—or even a week in one instance—before mentioning it again. So essentially, what I’m getting at is that I genuinely don’t crave the big O right now.

Has anyone else experienced this same shift, or am I going mad?

member_ee75320cfa 14 Sept 2026 #2

You're realizing that she holds the reins to your sexual satisfaction and your brain is being rewired to seek what it truly wants. Sex becomes a rare event now, occurring only when you fall in line during the weeks or months leading up to an opportunity. I find myself in a similar boat with roughly the same starting point as you. I've been continuously locked for eight weeks. There's far less teasing these days (which I actually miss), but I'm learning to deeply enjoy massaging her and delivering orgasms exactly how she demands.