Female led relationships discussion

Hi. Married male here. Our biggest problem is we both lean toward the submissive side. Idk how to suggest FLR or how to move toward chastity. Please help

Hello, Welcome to this forum (also beeing a newbie;-). I think you need to ask two questions here and not an OR-question as moving toward chastity can be a part of FLR but you can also practise is without FLR. The question is what it is you are looking for. Starting with FLR can be as simple as beeing very supportive and carrying and then develop a discussion from there, when your partner is recognizing the "benefits". Keep in mind that FLR is not about you (in the 1st place). I am at the same point currently. Regarding Chastity you can just mention that you like the idea beeing exclusive for your partner and how this has changed your mindset and feelings. Then asking what your partner thinks about the idea enforcing this. I would maybe NOT showcase a cage in the first place;-) Piet

Thanks for your reply. We did dabble in swinging and bondage years ago with both of us leaning toward submissive it didn’t really work. Idk if she has any interests there. So some of this would not be a shock to her. Hard to get a handle on her views at the moment.