Female led relationships discussion

Just a quick query for those of you who are already in an FLR. Ever since someone commented on my thread over at the other forum the linked community page I’ve been feeling pretty good about how things are between me and my husband. But one person chimed in, suggesting our bond might be starting to crack. Have others found that their FLR pushed them further apart, or did it bring you closer together? To be honest, his comment has sparked a little doubt inside me.

I don’t think your relationship is crumbling. Mutual respect seems key to me. Looking at it from my perspective, you wouldn’t have gone through with this if there wasn’t love involved. As long as those emotions are directed toward him and not someone else. Some women might feel like they were "given away," perhaps thinking their husband didn’t care enough since he wants the arrangement so much. In that scenario, it’s really his kink rather than hers originally. I’d say if your feelings for each other start to shift because of these "games" you play, take that as a warning sign and talk about it—it might have gone too far and need tweaking. Just my two cents. Don’t stress what others think; their opinion isn't necessarily your truth.

> Mistress Julie said: > Just a quick query for those of you who are already in an FLR. > Ever since someone commented on my thread over at the other forum the linked community page I’ve been feeling pretty good about how things are between me and my husband. But one person chimed in, suggesting our bond might be starting to crack. Have others found that their FLR pushed them further apart, or did it bring you closer together? To be honest, his comment has sparked a little doubt inside me. > Click to expand... I read that other post too. In an FLR with clear power exchange, I feel the owner should stick to what she wants. It always disappoints me slightly when my mistress gives in just to be nice (like it’s some unearned reward) or worries overly about public perception. Some people don’t realize that it is the exercise of power that really excites us. That seems to have been the case with your other post. Keep being your awesome self and enjoy your strong relationship, I say. Even though I sometimes try to resist my mistress, I always fail because sexual dominance gets to me so deeply. You two are doing just fine.