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I made sure the wife saw my disappointment in her actions, though I did so visibly yet respectfully; what upset me was trivial to her. We discussed it and agreed that I am not a sub all the time. But defining ‘sub’ is tricky. Is it being a mindless slave driven by her whims? We found our dynamic more nuanced than simple black-and-white rules. For us, we need honesty about feelings and mutual sensitivity in certain moments. A rigid existence where a sub has no independent thought or emotion doesn’t suit us, even if it works for others. It feels like an endless learning curve, which is why communication remains so important. I spent our remaining quiet time before work rubbing lotion on her feet and legs, proving I haven’t entirely forgotten my place:) Just like a successful marriage, chastity and the submissive/domme dynamic will always have their share of bumps along the way.

I am a collared sub to my Lady and, in many respects, her slave. Due to some issues she faces, I manage our finances with the exception of her Social Security, which remains hers to spend as she pleases. All household chores fall on me except for cooking supper. When we are alone at home, I wear CFNM or just panties under an apron.