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Greetings! Dogtanian69 here. I stumbled upon the site while figuring out whether to switch from a silicone gadget to steel, and what kind of lubricant works…

member_0d93c13302 14 Sept 2026 #1

Greetings! Dogtanian69 here. I stumbled upon the site while figuring out whether to switch from a silicone gadget to steel, and what kind of lubricant works best. Since I got my answers right here, I thought it was time to become a member myself. I’m a male submissive in his early fifties, hailing from Manchester, England, but currently residing in the US. My inclination toward submitting to women goes back to when I first picked up an issue of Ms. Sadie Sterns Monthly at age 13. Being part of the punk rock community has usually meant having partners who are happy to cater to me. The first lockup gear I owned was a lace-up, penis-and-ball style leather pouch from Manchester’s Harmony Center. It worked well enough, provided my first wife was home to help with bathroom duties. Fast forward many years, and after sixteen years of marriage, my second spouse and I decided to give chastity another go. The main reason is that I’m taking six months off work post-surgery, and I worry about accidentally masturbating myself into a stupor.

I’m really happy to be joining you all.