Introductions discussion

I’m new here and thought I’d say hi. I recently cut my Domina teeth on a rather difficult sub. He was a hard case, spoiled and perfect for the job. I always knew my first would ideally be a flight-risk, so that I could know if this is something I REALLY wanted, and so I wouldn’t be afraid to make beginner mistakes on him. It seemed fitting to join CM since he introduced me to it, and I’ve been reading for a while to get a feel for this place before posting. It feels like a supportive space for women and lacks the sleazy vibe that I got from another well-known kink site I barely frequented. In my circle of friends, I don’t have a single female friend who understands my persistent interest in FLR, or the teasing jokes I crack around them and in front of their men, especially when they are acting way out of line. At first they thought I was totally crazy, but over the last few years as their partners’ behaviours worsened, a few of them are now saying I might be onto something. I think a few are starting to be tempted to a crackdown. They often ask me for advice when it comes to infidelity and sneaky behaviour. I give it to them, but then they back out of applying it at the last minute. I’m sure you can relate to the frustration of watching your friends put up with total nonsense. I try to assure them that they have nothing to lose by laying down the law - that misbehaving males need structure and discipline and he will never respect her or other women without it. And so what if he does leave - he’s a literal loser! A fantastic turn of events even! There are thousands more males waiting to take his place faster than he can get his shit together, and unlike him, we never have to pay for it. Unfortunately, the heart wants what it wants and very often the best of us fall for weak and slutty men. I’ve been there. And that’s fine. We can have our cake and eat it when we keep weak men under strict discipline. My hope is that we can lead other women to see the light, just one at a time. I don’t think its a man’s place to bring women to enforce chastity (except in some very rare cases), to change a naturally submissive woman to fit around his fantasies. I do think its a woman’s prerogative to empower other women with knowledge and awaken the natural domme within them. We are smart enough alone, but in groups we are an unstoppable force. Boys clubs have gotten men far, but they have nothing on us when we work together! It’s been a fantastic, albeit short key holding experience so far. I posted my beginner story in the forums last night when I joined, but I didn’t go into the mistakes or the lessons learned. Maybe I’ll write about that sometime if there’s interest. Happy Friday! I look forward to getting to know some of you individually and sharing our experiences. That’s mainly why I’m here:kiss:

Welcome to the mansion, I’m sure whatever experience you’re willing to share would be eagerly accepted. Good luck

hello and welcome. I share your wish for more women to embrace dominance. We'd get on so much better with women in charge.