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Greetings all! I'm fairly new to the world of chastity. For a few years, I've been self-locking in short stints here and there, but now my girlfriend has…

member_39e25aaf63 14 Sept 2026 #1

Greetings all! I’m fairly new to the world of chastity. For a few years, I’ve been self-locking in short stints here and there, but now my girlfriend has agreed to be my keyholder, and we’re both really pleased with how it’s going. It’s definitely a strict femdom setup, and she seems to have taken quite naturally to the role. She wasn’t sure at first if she’d enjoy it, but now she loves having the power and attention, and is keen on making this arrangement last long-term!

So far, we’ve completed a two-week lock-up period followed by my first release. That experience basically confirmed that we should have started doing this years ago. I wouldn’t want to go back to any other way now.

We’re using the Cherry Keeper with its large headlock, and it’s working wonderfully. It cleans up easily, feels comfortable, is lightweight, and fits almost perfectly since trying different sizes has been part of learning about custom cages—it was worth every penny despite the challenge.

I’m really excited by all this and don’t want to ramble too much in my intro post.

Thanks for hearing me out; I look forward to being more active here on the forum!