Female led relationships discussion
When does someone realize or admit they are in an FLR? We have been on our chastity path for six weeks and just had our first real talk about how we feel…
When does someone realize or admit they are in an FLR? We have been on our chastity path for six weeks and just had our first real talk about how we feel regarding it. I was the one who brought chastity into our relationship. My wife told me she enjoys the changes she sees in me and feels like she has a new husband. I mentioned that her dominance surprised me and I love being subservient to her. We agreed that I will keep wearing the cage while she keeps hold of the key. She also promised not to release me from the device unless there is an emergency. I need to self-release every day for washing but must avoid cumming because she controls my orgasms. A better long-term 24/7 device will be used (I already bought it, though it needs a new base ring). If I ask to come out, she can refuse. I have to call her Mrs [Surname] and keep doing my tasks and chores. This is what we’ve settled on so far. She doesn’t know the term FLR well, so did we just evolve or drift into one, or do we still need more work?
Yes, I’m completely certain you can ‘evolve’ into a Female Led Relationship. I am usually an Alpha male and now find myself in an FLR with my lovely Mistress. Before this phase, she was more like a slave to me in the BDSM sense, as well as being my partner, lover, and soulmate. But she recognized something within me—a desire to submit that even I hadn’t fully realized—because she knows me better than anyone else ever has. Now we’ve decided to live in a kind of mixed lifestyle: mostly vanilla with male dominance but female-led undertones. In typical everyday situations, I am usually the one taking charge because she doesn’t feel the need to control the mundane aspects of life and trusts me to handle them. I remain a somewhat dominant guy who occasionally enjoys being rough with her. Yet at my core lies a deep wish to submit to her and devote myself entirely... so beneath our entire relationship is her underlying control. Happy boy.