Female led relationships discussion

Hi new to chastity. My wife is already very dominant, been taking to her about my chastity fetish, and she seems to be on board. Got a stainless steel cage from ebay. Good fit, feels comfortable. I think she could really get into keyholding if she knew more about it. Wondering how your KH got into the community blog? I was thinking about loctober might be a fun intro to serious long time lock up not just a weekend.