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Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I wear the chastity belt and do what my wife says. We lead a normal life where I work and she raises our kids, but we weave in flr elements when we can,…

member_e1d3313680 14 Sept 2026 #1

I wear the chastity belt and do what my wife says. We lead a normal life where I work and she raises our kids, but we weave in flr elements when we can, since we’re still early on in this journey.

Once my chastity became permanent, all those old BDSM fantasies that used to excite me faded away—strapon play, bondage, whips. What stayed was simply wanting to obey and be under the control of my goddess, fulfilling every one of her wishes.

My biggest passion remains footfetish though; I need my wife’s divine feet in my life. Their scent is especially wonderful. Each night, I lie at her feet, sniffing, kissing, and massaging them. She knows she wears special shoes for me and skips washing up after dinner so I can enjoy the smell more, even if it’s not strictly necessary. I figure a daily massage would please her regardless of whether her feet are clean or not. Still, I feel great because of what she does.

With other fantasies out of the picture, smelling her feet is my only real joy here.

What do you think about this dynamic? Any wish of hers becomes law for me since I adore her so much. Should it be something she just does naturally? Or should it remain a limited pleasure that acts as either a reward or gift instead? If it’s the latter, how often would make sense—weekly, bi-weekly, monthly? Are there specific conditions?

Thanks ahead of time for your thoughts.